She shouldn't have to be called "dumb" for being with an guy she loved and she thought loved her back, she cared for him and he was not faithful to her. She didn't choose to end up being cheated on repeatedly but she did choose to stay with him, we only know what is shown in the 6:44 video on youtube we don't know there back story. Many Men cheat on Women and don't care to understand that when they cheat they make the Women develop trust issues if she didn't already have any, and it physically, emotionally, mentality messes her up because she no longer thinks she is good enough she begins to question your ever move and its nerve recking. The girl isn't dumb for forgiving him because the enemy will only try to break her. He has come to rob, steal and destroy and they both have the power to work through it and let go and let god because not only is forgiving him letting go of the pain she is holding on to as the bible says we are suppose to forgive but we will never forget so no she isn't dumb for forgiving him. Because who knows why he cheated maybe she wouldn't let him break up with her or he just wasn't ready to commit to one girl.
So no she is not dumb she is very smart for letting go and letting god because she will grow to be stronger and learn to love herself more than anyone else because unless she fully loves herself she can not love no other. Many people stop loving themselves first when they enter into relationships because they feel that they must love the other person more than or equal to the amount that they love each other which is false. You must love yourself first because no Man or Woman should be able to break you to feel like you are less than one.
For my past relationship I got into an hit and run accident during homecoming 2015 and I had to report home due to this incident. I had already brought my ticket and I knew the guy I was talking/dating did not pay for his ticket so since I wouldn't be able to attend, I gave him the ticket. So later that night I was texting him how I was afraid and what I did was dumb because I should've stopped this was my first car accident and I did not want to make my mom mad which I did. So as I was scrolling on twitter that night and had came across someone favorite his tweet, I had serious trust issues back then thank god I worked on that. But back to the story so I was like hmm who is this girl and clicked on her page then realized it was his Ex-girlfriend so I looked through her pictures like us girls do and seen that she said she was going out with her friends and the only thing I knew was happening tonight was Lincoln University homecoming. So later on I let time pass by I was talking to my friends about the accident then one of the male Resident Assistant messaged me that my the guy I was talking to had girls in his room so I went back on twitter to check the girl page becoming an investigator now because I had to get to the bottom of this my friends went to his room to check for me he didn't answer, he had stopped texting me and guess what I seen the next day.....My blanket in the picture with the girl, yes my blanket lol now that I have your attention stay tuned for the story time on youtube....LOL but this had mentality broke me I questioned was I good enough, I went into depression me and him would fight and then I finally had enough when he blacked my eye and knew I had to leave because I didn't love myself and no Man should ever hit an Woman. So yes now I am able to share this story because I was once her.
